1. Home
  2. Home & Garden
  3. Interior Decorating

Escape From the World

Don't Let Anyone or Anything Distract You From the Serious Business of Relaxing

By Coral Nafie, About.com

You'd want to soak in this tub for a long time!

If you long for some personal time, away from it all, take some of our ideas and go for it!
  • Soak In Privacy

    Do you always jump in and out of the shower in five minutes? If so, you're missing out on one of life's most wonderful, yet most simple, pleasures-- soaking in a bath.

    Plan an hour of pure indulgence. But plan ahead!

    To set a relaxing and comforting mood, pay special attention to the lighting in your bathroom. Install a dimmer switch on the overhead fixture or place a small lamp on the counter. If you have space for a chandelier overhead, the shimmer and glitter of small bulbs will create a special atmosphere.

    Be sure that you have a radio or stereo close by so that you can lounge with the sound of beautiful music in the background. Nothing loud and distracting, but rather soothing and sensuous.

    It's wonderful to set the mood for a decadent bath with candles arranged around the tub, on the counters, or even in cans on the floor. If you use scented candles, be sure not to mix too many fragrances. Find one you like and concentrate your efforts on one scent.

    Have a luxurious bubble bath or bath oil ready to pour into the water. The bubbles will look and feel fun, the oil will make your skin soft, and you may never want to get out!

    Be sure to invest in some wonderful, thirsty, thick, and large towels. When you get out, you'll be able to wrap yourself up and hold the warmth inside. You might also want to get a luxurious terry or satin bathrobe.

    If your bathroom is large enough, consider putting a lounge chair, bench, or comfortable chair in the room. You'll be able to get out of the tub and not have to go anywhere until you really want to.

    Remember, it's all about creating a special space that has everything you love. Your time is your own and you'll want it to last.

  • A Private Place for Hobbies

    Do you long for time and place to do some writing? If, so, create a place in your home just for that. Whether you write long hand or on a computer, your space should be a haven from outside distractions. If you must share an area of a room, use a divider screen to separate your space from the rest of the room. Have a desk, comfortable chair, good light, and inspirational view. Be sure there is room to spread everything out. You'll find that your inspiration will flow freely.

    The lost art of letter writing can be resurrected at a lovely writing desk in the corner of a bedroom. With so little written communication except by e-mail these days, very few families will have any record of the lives of loved ones. Generations to follow might enjoy reading of your exploits and adventures. Share them with others through letters, and ask the recipient to save them for you.

    Are you a secret artist with no time to pursue your dream? Find a place, large or small, where you can create to your heart's content. Provide space to set up an easel, arrange your paints, pastels, or pencils so they're convenient, keep a log nearby to record your daily accomplishments, have good lighting, and be sure that your space has a wonderful, inspiring view. Don't forget a grand chair to contemplate your work. And don't even think of taking everything down when you have to get back to the real world! Your private retreat will be there whenever you have time to go back.

    A cozy corner is a perfect place to do needlework. Using fabrics as your canvas, create works of art with threads, yarn, or appliqued items. Don't think that your time spent in such pursuits is time frittered away. You'll be creating heirlooms for future generations, and the work deserves your undivided attention. Have all the supplies gathered in one place and go back to them whenever you can!

    Do you love to relax by building model boats, airplanes, or furniture? Then your private sanctuary might be in a dedicated area of a basement or garage. But the space is no less important or private. Have everything set up so that you can go to it whenever you can get away. Tools arranged neatly, materials at hand, and proper lighting will make this retreat just perfect.

  • Wile Away the Hours If You Can

    If you just like to sit back and dream or contemplate, your private retreat should inspire you to do just that. Great ideas have been inspired by private, uninterrupted time away from the bustle of mundane activities.

    Don't think that this time is wasted. In fact, you'll be refreshed and inspired to tackle whatever lies ahead.

Read more about how to make your retreat your personal space and surround yourself with things that you love..

Explore Interior Decorating

More from About.com

  1. Home
  2. Home & Garden
  3. Interior Decorating
  4. Decorating by Room
  5. Bedrooms
  6. Create Your Own Private Retreat

©2008 About.com, a part of The New York Times Company.

All rights reserved.